We have heard of huge and expensive weddings, but guests are charged for not attending a reception.
A Chicago couple sent bills to guests who decided not to attend the wedding reception without informing the couple. Calling them guests “Don’t Call, Don’t Show,” Doug Simmons and Dedra McGee said they would charge these guests $ 240 for the reception dinner for them and theirs.
Posting the photo of the bill on Facebook, Doug wrote, “Don’t be offended when I send you this # invoice. It will be something like that. I will send it by email and certified mail … in case I said I will not receive the email 🤷🏾♂️😂 #PETTYPOST ”
An invoice note reads: “This invoice is sent to you because you confirmed the place at the wedding reception during the final count. The above amount is the cost of individual seats. Because you did not call us or properly notify us that you would not attend, this amount is what you owe us to pay for your seats in advance. You can pay via Zelle or PayPal. Please contact us and let us know which payment method works for you. Thank you! “
Guests were given a month to pay the amount of the couple whose wedding took place at the Royalton Negril Resort & Spa in Jamaica.
In another post, Doug wrote: “And gno more than 200 messages from the inbox of people who thanked me for posting #INVOICE. Many have shared horror stories about people who didn’t show up. Weddings and birthday parties … very sad. My #PETTYPOST has become something deeper … it has exposed people’s lack of responsibility and has always found a way to become a victim. ”
Said Doug al New York Post that he and his wife were injured because the guests did not show up to the wedding of their planned dreams and this made them take this step.
“We asked four times,‘ Are you available to come, can you do that? “And they kept saying ‘Yes,'” said Doug, who had to pay in advance as it was a destination wedding in Jamaica.
Saying that no one informed the couple that they could not attend the wedding, Doug told the Post: “That’s all I asked for. If you tell me you can’t get it, would you be understanding, but don’t tell me anything, but let me pay for you and yours more? Four people became eight people. I took it personally. “
I don’t think I’ve ever seen any wedding reception bill before hehe pic.twitter.com/ZAYfGITkxP
– philip lewis (@Phil_Lewis_) August 24, 2021
After the photo of the bill went viral, netizens showed their surprise at the couple’s move. While some defined it as a “tacky” move, many others appreciated it and talked about their own experiences of people not showing up after confirming it.
You know what, except for a hospital that is worthy of emergencies, you have an obligation to report. People pay per plate and can reduce the number of dinners with reasonable notice; so honestly i’m here for that.
– Lia Marie (@Liamarie_life) August 25, 2021
$ 240 is a lot to waste. … if there’s no proper excuse for not showing up, they owe it to people lol.
– Magnegra (@Daniellesssssss) August 24, 2021
I would send it right away pic.twitter.com/LHa7EAC1ng
– Hedgehog no. 1 (@hedgehogkibble) August 24, 2021
No, that’s petty. Create a budget for any event in advance. Or you can afford it if everyone shows up or not. There are no shows at a wedding that can be personally detrimental, but guests don’t owe you shit.
– Love Quest by Leona 💕 (@LeonasLoveQuest) August 24, 2021
It’s not about being able to afford it, it’s about the principle. They had done it to me, and I think it’s very disrespectful to rsvp “yes” to a wedding and not show it. So much time / effort / money goes for a wedding. It’s unfair!
– BarbaraBeauty🇭🇹 (@barbarabeaute_) August 24, 2021
I wish I had thought that. One-third of the people who responded to our wedding did not show up. We paid for a lot of food that was wasted (although it was MUCH LESS $ 120 a plate).
– Jackie Barbosa (A BIT OF ROUGH is out!) (@Jackiebarbosa) August 24, 2021
Did you answer and not show up? If so, this is lame shit.
– The Hoarse Whisperer (@TheRealHoarse) August 24, 2021