Pamela Anderson’s romance and marriage to a builder she hired to repair her Canadian home has broken up a family of five, her ex has claimed.
Anderson, 53, told DailyMailTV on Wednesday in a worldwide exclusive interview that she had married Dan Hayhurst, 40, her fifth husband.
But on Thursday Hayhurst’s ex, referred to only as Carey, accused Anderson of being a “home tamer” in an interview with The Sun.
Anderson’s wedding took place on Christmas Eve at his estate in the town of Ladysmith on Vancouver Island.
We are very happy. I’m happier than ever, ”Anderson told DailyMailTV.
Pamela Anderson and Dan Hayhurst were married on their Vancouver Island estate on Christmas Eve
Dan Hayhurst appears in the photo with ex-partner Carey. Carey has called Anderson a “house destroyer” after he allegedly robbed Hayhurst and broke up a happy family of five
The couple has been working with the RASTA sanctuary, which provides a “home forever” to farm animals rescued on Vancouver Island. The shrine posted several photos of Anderson and her new husband at work and a video of Anderson feeding some cows
“It’s like a full circle: coming home and falling in love with someone who is almost exactly like me, you know, I think the rest was a dream.
“It seems more real and it’s a good feeling to be home and be with someone who really cares about me and what I really am, who I think I am, as a girl, from the same area and we get along really well.
He said of the wedding, “It was a short, sweet ceremony with a local, natural pastor. It was simple, not stressful. Being together effortlessly. ‘
But Carey hit the version of the star’s events.
“This is not the love story that is portrayed, it’s all a façade,” he told The Sun.
“I decided to talk because I want people to know that my nearly five-year relationship, with three children involved, ended because of the affair Pam and Dan started while she was still with me.
“It’s sad that people celebrate it and make them happy, when it started with deceptions, denials and groundbreaking decisions for everyone involved.”
Carey told the newspaper that Hayhurst had been living with her, her 21-year-old daughter Denise, and their two children until the summer.
The couple never married, but Carey said they had an engaged relationship.
“We did it all together, like family vacations, family fishing trips, we worked together on family projects,” he said.
“It’s always been us.”
Carey and Hayhurst met five years ago on a dating app and first lived in the town of Squarmish before moving to Vancouver Island.
Denise had worked for Anderson and then Hayhurst worked her in the fall of 2019.
Initially, Hayhurst complained about her boss, Carey said, describing her as “crazy.”
“I got married on the property I bought from my grandparents 25 years ago, this is where my parents got married and are still together. I feel like I’ve made a full circle,” Anderson said.
The bridal bouquet was wrapped in a powder blue tulle to match the dress and included a blue hydrangea that echoed the ocean and symbolized the aquatic element of emotion.
Anderson met Hayhurst, who lived locally on Vancouver Island, at the beginning of the closure
In a text shared with The Sun, he wrote: “The dragon has been released! Speaking of Pam.
In January 2020, it was reported that Anderson married film producer Jon Peters, but separated from him two weeks later and said it was never a real wedding.
Carey said, “I would say,‘ What are you doing? You have to get out of this job. It’s crazy’. There was the crazy step when she married that guy Jon Peters for two weeks.
“She had told all the contractors she was married, so when I saw the news, I texted Dan.
“He responded by saying,‘ Hahaha he’s older than his father, but I think we’ve already run out of our money, ’which meant because the boy is rich.
I thought I was pretty ruthless to him. He really didn’t seem to keep up with her.
Carey said things started to change in late March, when the blockade began and Hayhurst spent an increasing amount of time with Anderson.
“The worm turned around,” he said. ‘COVID happened and it looked like it would happen overnight.
“Dan would stay home and not come home, and here I am caring for the children.
“At first, he denied it when I confronted him, but finally, I asked him,‘ Are you sleeping with Pam?
“He said, ‘All I’m going to say is I crossed the line.’
“At first he said,‘ I want him to stay at our house. I don’t want you to go there. I just need to find out. ‘
He later apologized to me. He said, ‘Carey, I love you. I don’t know what’s going on right now. Right now I’m not in the right head. I’m not in a good space. ‘
“He asked me to give him time to figure things out, so I just let him do what he did.
“And then there was no turning back.” He had met Pam and had gone to dinner with her. My daughter worked for her. I could not believe it.
Anderson married Hayhurst without any of his friends or family present during the closing
Underneath her wedding dress, Pamela Anderson said she was wearing a pair of sturdy Hunter rain boots while standing on the muddy floor of her property.
“I’m exactly where I need to be, in the arms of a man who really loves me,” he tells Canadian-based DailyMailTV in an exclusive interview. Anderson, originally from Canada, broadcasts in snapshots of weddings by a local pastor, during which the couple read traditional vows
Carey said she moved in July. He has since put the house up for sale.
Carey’s daughter Denise, 21, who worked as a worker at Anderson’s home, told The Sun that the couple had managed to keep their relationship a secret, even though she worked at home with the two of them .
“I was surprised when I found out,” he said.
I just thought, “How can this be something?” I’m here working with them full time and had no idea.
“And the fact that he had a family, we were a mixed family, he has two small children and obviously she is much older.
What was your thought process? What was going on in his mind?
‘It impacted me a lot. It’s something as unreal, as something that comes straight out of the movies. I can not believe. Everyone thinks it’s this closed love story and no one knows there was an affair and that this family is involved.
Denise said she and her mother were upset that Anderson described it as a dream come true, when other people were involved.
“And I think the hardest part is that people are feeding on this one-sided fairy tale story when in fact there’s so much more,” Denise said.
“It has damaged a lot of people’s lives. It has been really difficult for my mother.
She grew up totally and was a full time mom for those kids. It’s been hard to see her go through this.
“There was no patch or things were wrong at home. Things were completely normal throughout the process until this happened.”
He speculated that Anderson, who moved full-time to his Canadian hometown in 2019, would resume his life when the pandemic ended.
“I don’t see it working,” he said.
Carey concluded, “I just think, ‘Wow, who are you?’ Who have I been with for five years? None of this makes sense.
Anderson’s representative has not yet responded to the DailyMail.com request.