Pamela Anderson has been accused of being “destructive” after allegedly stealing her new husband from another woman and breaking up a happy family of five.
The model and actress is accused of seducing handcuffs Dan Hayhurst – whom she married on Christmas Eve – while working on her property in the Canadian city of Ladysmith and having an affair with another woman.
On Wednesday, the 53-year-old former Baywatch star announced that she had married her “bodyguard” Dan, 40, in what was her sixth wedding, to her fifth husband, saying: “I’m exactly where I need to be. Arms of a man who loves me.”
But Dan’s desperate ex-Carey, who had been living with him and raising his two children for the past five years, has explained how she was blinded by the affair and didn’t know anything about her marriage until she read it. online.
He said the couple began dating earlier last year while she and Dan were still together, before finally moving from their shared home to Pam’s in July.
Carey, 42, said: “This is not the love story that is portrayed, it is all a façade.
“I decided to talk because I want people to know that my almost five-year relationship, with three children involved, ended because of the story that Pam and Dan started while he was still with me.
“It’s sad that people celebrate this and make them happy, when it started with deceptions, denials and groundbreaking decisions for everyone involved.
Turned worm
“It was not this romance that happened overnight. He worked with her for over six months before anything happened.
“He was not his bodyguard at the time, he is a handyman, he hired him to work at home.
“We were totally blinded by this, it cost us a lot. And not just me and the kids, a lot of people have hurt us. Dan has lost friendships and business relationships because of this. “
Carey’s mother, from Vancouver Island, and Dan, who was then a single father, reunited after meeting in a dating app and moved with him to mainland Squamish, a town in the United States. north of Vancouver, helping to educate. his two young children.
The couple moved to Vancouver Island to start again about four years ago.
She said: “We did everything together, like family vacations, family fishing trips, we worked together on family projects. It’s always been us. “
But her happy life had to change forever after Dan was hired to renovate Pamela’s five-acre home in Ladysmith.
She started working on it in the early fall of 2019, soon complaining to Carey about how “crazy” Pamela was and how difficult and demanding she had to work.
In a text shared with The Sun, he wrote: “The dragon has been set free! Speaking of Pam “.
In January 2020, Pamela “married” film producer Jon Peters before breaking up with him two weeks later, claiming it was never a real wedding.
Carey said, “I would say,‘ What are you doing? You have to get out of this job. It’s crazy’. There was the crazy step when she married that guy Jon Peters for two weeks.
“She had told all the contractors that she would get married the day or so before, so when I saw the news about it I texted Dan.
“He responded by saying,‘ Hahaha he’s older than his father, but I think we’ve already run out of our money, ’which meant because the boy is rich.
“I thought he was quite ruthless for him. He didn’t really seem to be following her. “
Carey said things started to change at the end of last March, with Dan spending more and more time away from home.
She continued: “The worm turned. Covid passed by and it looked like it would happen overnight.
“Dan would stay at home and not come home, and here I am taking care of the children.
“At first he denied it when I confronted him, but eventually I asked him, ‘Are you sleeping with Pam? He said,’ All I’m going to say is I crossed the line. ‘
“At first he said, ‘I want him to stay at our house. I don’t want you to go there. I just need to find out. ‘
“It simply came to our notice then. He said, ‘Carey, I love you. I don’t know what’s going on right now. Right now I’m not in the right head. I’m not in a good space. ‘
“He asked me to give him time to figure things out, so I just let him do what he did.
“And there was no going back. He had met Pam and had gone to dinner with her. My daughter worked for her. I could not believe it “.
Dan and Pamela’s relationship continued to develop and last July she moved out of the house she shared with Carey and moved in with Pam.
Unilateral history
On Wednesday, Pam told an interviewer she had been with Dan for a year and added, “This year together it feels like seven, like dog years.”
Carey moved out of the shared house after Dan and is currently for sale.
He claims he and Pam behave like teenagers and said, “When he turned 40 last year he bought him a boat.
“Now he has destroyed his car three times and his boat twice. It’s a walking mess. They sit on their property drinking: it’s like the Dan and Pam show. ”
Pam claims that she and Dan had the blessing of all her family and friends for their wedding, but Carey discusses this by saying, “No one was invited to the wedding.
“He texted his mother the night before the ceremony and said, ‘I’m getting married tomorrow, keep this in the DL and don’t say anything.’
“It simply came to our notice then. Like, obviously, she respected him because he was her son, but she wasn’t invited. It doesn’t even look like a real wedding. Everything seems so under control. “
She added: “It can be very manipulative, so in a sense, they are made for each other, but I don’t see it lasting. I would be very surprised.
“Dan and I never got married because I never want to.
“For me it’s nothing, it’s a piece of paper and it causes problems when you want to get out of it.
“And he had told me, ‘I’ll never get married again.’ And here we are, six or eight months or whatever devils have their relationship and are married.
“I just thought, ‘Wow, who are you?’ Who have I been with for five years? None of this makes sense. ”
Carey’s daughter Denise, 21, who worked as a day laborer at Pam’s home, told The Sun that she discovered Dan’s relationship: “I was surprised when I found out.
“I just thought, ‘How can this be something?’ I’m here working with them full time and had no idea.
“And the fact that he had a family, we were a mixed family, he has two small children and, obviously, she is much older.
“What was your thought process? What was going on in his mind?
“I was just shocked. It’s something as unreal, as something that comes straight out of the movies. I can not believe. Everyone thinks it’s this closed love story and no one knows there was an affair and that this family is involved.
“And I think the hardest part is that people are feeding on this one-sided fairy tale story when in fact there’s so much more.
“It simply came to our notice then. It’s been really hard for my mom.
“She grew up totally and was a full-time mother to those kids. It’s been hard to see her go through that.
“There was no patch or things were wrong at home, things were completely normal throughout the process until this happened.
“Pam does not have the best marriage, it is true. So when Covid is over and I can travel again and I don’t know, I really don’t see it working. “
How she got to her husband 5
PAM married wild rocker Tommy in 1995 after meeting him for only 96 hours and had two children with him, Brandon and Dylan.
The couple separated after Motley Crue’s drummer assaulted him and spent six months in jail. They divorced in 1998, but reunited briefly in 2008 before quitting again.
He became engaged to the rapper and musician in 2002, but later went his own way. But after reuniting, they married in 2006.
They separated later that same year. Pam suffered a miscarriage while the couple was married and divorced shortly afterwards, alleging “irreconcilable differences.”
IN 2007, Pam and professional poker player Rick were married at The Mirage Hotel and Casino in Las Vegas, but divorced only ten weeks later, citing the usual “irreconcilable differences” and the marriage was subsequently annulled. officially. They remarried in 2014 but divorced for the second time in 2015.
Pam first dated the film producer more than 30 years ago and apparently made the knot in a secret ceremony in January 2020.
They separated after 12 days and the actress later claimed in an Instagram headline that “they never got married legally” and that it was just a “bizarre theatrical lunch”.